Ladies, what I am about to write will NOT make sense to you. It will seem to be a justification of selfishness, deceit and breaking the special bond of trust – allow me to assure you that this is nothing more than a leisurely stroll through the scariest place you’ve ever been .
Now please understand that I am only EXPLAINING an emotion that men go through AFTER cheating and I am in no way condoning being a douchebag and sleeping with other other – so Ladies, here is the reality of cheating: When a man cheats on his woman, more often than not it actually INCREASES the amount of love and affection he has for her.
Ladies whether you want to believe it or not this is actually the case. It is not that logical or rational, but if you do one simple thing you MIGHT be able to understand: Remember that men DON’T think like you – we think VERY different. The reason it’s hard for women to accept that a man could cheat and LOVE her even more after he so clearly disrespected her, is because they think about the reasons that make THEM cheat – and those reasons have NOTHING to do with why MOST men cheat.
Women cheat because they are dissatisfied, fed-up, feeling taken advantage of, feeling taken for granted, feeling emotional and physically ignored, etc. Men, on the other hand, cheat because new nani seems WAY better than old nani. And it’s that mentality that not only keeps a lot of men continually chasing women, it’s what SNAPS us back to life after that nut has been busted and we realize that the grass is MUCH greener on OUR side of the fence.
A man is in a relationship with a woman he loves; he meets a woman who shows him signs that he can tackle the nani if he so chooses; he decides to pursue that new nani because the labia always seems wetter on the other side; he gets it in and busts that nut; after that testosterone has seeped from his system, his clear mind has returned and his clear mind says one thing – ‘let’s get home to our woman and leave this musty trick sitting here because I love my girl and this h0e ain’t worth two damns.’
Cheating is a messed up thing anyway you look at it, and it’s REALLY messed up to play without someone’s emotions in such a harsh and disrespectful way. But understand Ladies that sometimes your man isn’t lying when he says he realizes NOW how much he cares for you and loves you (whether or not he even gets caught) but at the end of the day, you need to do one important thing: Find the man that doesn’t need to test the other side of the grass to discover how much he truly loves you.
