No marriage proposal, no engagement ring, yet about to wed

Dear Todaysgist, I read your post on a lady not liking her engagement ring and it reminded me of my own situation. 

My introduction is this Saturday and my wedding is in November, yet I don't even have an engagement ring. He never even proposed to me.

 Each time I speak to him about it, he makes a joke of it. I feel its kind of absurd. I have always desired to be proposed to and given a ring before my introduction day. 

This is has always been my childhood fantasy. Is this normal? 

Are there married ladies out there who got married without an engagement ring? 

I want todaygist readers to advise me honestly and not insult me .... Smiling .

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