Goodday todaysgist,
This is a true life story, long but true, I met this married man at a banking hall during my IT, after OND program, at the age of 21, we get talking and became close friends. Few months later we started dating, despite d fact that I knew he was married with 3kids, I went ahead to date him, he was soo caring and fun to be with, I wish he was never married.
When the relationship
was going to something too serious, I tried to keep away from him, but this man didn’t what to let go of me. Am from a good christian home, and d man was a muslim, he told me if I want him become a christian because of me, he would be, that I should just marry him, I disagreed bcos, I knew what a polygamous home is all about. And my mum and my siblings warned me about him too.
I relocated from d town we met to Lagos, so that if I didn’t c him again, I will be able to 4get everything about him, low and behold, he traced me to where I relocated to, and d whole story changed, he was more dan too caring, spoilt me with money and evrytin a lady could ever dream of. He was soo much in love with me. I got pregnant during d process, b4 I knew it, he went to my parents to report himself dat he’s responsible 4 d preg, dat my parent should not alow me terminate it.
I put to bed, We did introduction and engagement, and we got married. I parked to his rented apartment, and everyting was moving fine. He even sent me back to school, am now a graduate. the other wife is in d haus he built in his own home town. No problems with her as she accepted me.
To cut the long story short, he bought a house in my town, so while we were parking to d new house, I saw sometin like a charm in a bag(a padlock rapped with plenty Tred), I opened it and evrything about me changed, as if something has covered my face 4 years, like what am I doing with dis man, I went to my mum and told her what I saw, she didn’t believe me. It was not more than 3months after he lost his job.
Though, he’s still financially ok, Its glaring that it was charm dat worked on me, and 4 me to set my eyes on it, dats when I came back to my senses. D man dat I so much love b4 now look disgusting and irritating to me. If I leave him now, pple will not kno y I left him.
Am already cheating on him, cos he’s not supose to be my husband, he’s still so soo much inlove with me, buh to me, I don’t feel a thing for him again., I told him to his face. He won’t let me go. I am just 26, he’s 39.
Now, I need matured people to advice me, should I pack my tins and leave dis man, or stay with him till he ruinS me with charm? Nobody should blame me cos I know I caused it all. Solution is what I need now. What do I do?
