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“My Husband Got Our only Teenage Daughter Pregnant”

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 Mrs. Janet, a 40 yr-old trader and also a mother of two, is always ready to tell the story of her husband who threw caution to the wind and slept with their only daughter, putting her in the family way against tradition.

 But she would always have herself to blame as she narrated that her prolonged absence from home created the gap that not only ruined her marriage but destroyed what was left of her daughter’s life. ''I was hardly around.'' She says.

 At a time when my daughter needed motherly care and advice, I was not around.

 At the time she had her first menstrual period, my husband was at home with her and gave her the necessary care.

 But it turned out to be a sordid experience as the man took advantage of his naive daughter.

 He began to sleep with her afterwards, telling her if he didn’t do that, the menstrual blood would continue.

 That continued without my knowledge until I discovered she was ill.

 I got the shock of my life when I was told my daughter was pregnant. More devastating was the fact that her father had been sleeping with her,” she lamented. According to her, the husband initially denied responsibility.

 But after the intervention of their village head, he confessed to the crime. “He was interrogated by the police, but he denied.

 Our king intervened and also interrogated him and he later confessed to the crime,” she stated.

 On the punishment meted out to him, Janet said as is customary in the African culture, he was banished by the king from the community.

 “He has been banished from the village, leaving me to take care of the 13 children,” she said.

 Lamenting how she has been taking care of the children, she said the punishment should also have included taking care of the 13 children she has from the marriage.

 “It has been very excruciating, a more severe punishment should have been given to him to take care of the children rather than leaving me all alone to care for the 13 children.

 Although the man was not really doing anything serious before the incident, he supported from the little pension he collected from his former employer,” she revealed.
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Shocking! "How My Husband's 'Cousin' Turned Out to Be His Wife"

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"My husband is a pathological liar,  10 years after our marriage I discovered that the woman he called his cousin and her children were his wife and children.

 My husband lied that he was going to Abuja for a training programme.

 I was surprised when I was told that he now lives in Mushin in a police woman's house," embattled housewife, Rashidat Adeniyi, told an Agege-Orile, Lagos customary court.

 The husband, Toyin Adeniyi, 50, denied the allegations. Toyin, an engineer, said, "Because I am a handsome man, ladies fall for me, so it can be one of the strategies to cause quarrels between us that she heard those lies.

 "I left the house because I owed a year rent and I told my wife that I would come for her and the children when I am back on my feet," he said.

 Rashidat pleaded with the court to dissolve her 19-year-old marriage over two years desertion by her husband.

 The 33-year-old computer analyst, who lives at 33, Alaramimo Street, Orile-Agege, told the court that her husband left the house two years ago for a police woman’s house.

 She told the court that it was after ten years of marriage that she knew that her husband had a wife and children before she married him.

 The mother of three asked the court to dissolve the marriage and grant her the custody of the children.

 Meanwhile, the husband said he still loved his wife, and not in support of the dissolution.

 "Since I am the busy type, anytime I left the house, my wife always thought otherwise.

 I haven't told anyone that I am a widower," he stated. Toyin explained that the police woman the wife was referring to was just a friend.

 The court President, Mr Joseph Adewusi, told the couple to maintain the peace and adjourned the case to July 22nd for judgment.
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