People still think marriage is what you wake up one day and jump into and that is a very wrong notion. So i strongly advice, don't get married for any of the reasons below.
Here are 15 wrong reasons to get married...
1. You must not get married because of lust.
2. Infatuation (Love at first sight- sudden love)
3. Just liking the idea of marriage. It's just like joining the Army because you like the uniform. Nobody joins the army with a promise that he won't go to war.
4. The fear of remaining unmarried(my friends are all married, my sisters are all
married e.t.c)
5. Pressure (parents, friends, etc)
6. Because you want to escape being jilted (if he is the right man/woman, he or she wont jilt you)
7. Getting married for money (money does not guarantee a successful marriage at all.
8. Using marriage as an escape route! [I am tired of mummy and daddy]
9. Having pity... (feeling sorry for the Man or the Woman)
10. Foolish Expectation......[Marrying an unbeliever and expecting him/her to change in the course marriage! especially if they don't change before you marry them]
11. Marrying for Beauty or Handsomeness.......[The best time to access a woman properly is absolutely when she wakes up in the morning!] Let him see you as you are Now!!!
12. Accidental PREGNANCY! [Just because you become pregnant along the line doesn't mean you have to bury your destiny there.
13. Tribal Connection [I must marry someone from my town.,,etc...]
14. To satisfy your Parents.
15. Marrying to hurt your Parent
Here are 15 wrong reasons to get married...
1. You must not get married because of lust.
2. Infatuation (Love at first sight- sudden love)
3. Just liking the idea of marriage. It's just like joining the Army because you like the uniform. Nobody joins the army with a promise that he won't go to war.
4. The fear of remaining unmarried(my friends are all married, my sisters are all
married e.t.c)
5. Pressure (parents, friends, etc)
6. Because you want to escape being jilted (if he is the right man/woman, he or she wont jilt you)
7. Getting married for money (money does not guarantee a successful marriage at all.
8. Using marriage as an escape route! [I am tired of mummy and daddy]
9. Having pity... (feeling sorry for the Man or the Woman)
10. Foolish Expectation......[Marrying an unbeliever and expecting him/her to change in the course marriage! especially if they don't change before you marry them]
11. Marrying for Beauty or Handsomeness.......[The best time to access a woman properly is absolutely when she wakes up in the morning!] Let him see you as you are Now!!!
12. Accidental PREGNANCY! [Just because you become pregnant along the line doesn't mean you have to bury your destiny there.
13. Tribal Connection [I must marry someone from my town.,,etc...]
14. To satisfy your Parents.
15. Marrying to hurt your Parent
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