Reasons why spouses cheat on each other

To some men they think is not bad for them to cheat on their woman and yet they expect them to be submissive all the time.

 This is one of the most important marital issues that really has to be addressed properly since it’s like the percentage of why spouses cheat on each other is fast growing up. Therefore, in this article, I intend to lay out some of the main causes for it, right? But there is one thing I have to be certain about which is the fact that I can’t make a mockery of myself by emphasizing that the points I will mention are the total causes for cheating, else, except you will be ready to read something forty times of this article. A research was carried out after which it proofs that in every 100% of marriages, only about 28% of the spouses stick to each other which equally means that about 72% of spouses cheat on their partners.

Here are 5 reasons why spouses cheat on each other

 1. Inadequate s3xual satisfaction - Of all we are to talk about on this topic this is the most important one spouses cheat on each other, you will discover that, one way or another, it has to do with s3xual desires. This therefore means that, if one of the spouses’ main focuses behind the marriage was to satisfy this need, then without enough of it will certainly lead to cheating so as to satisfy this s3xual urge.

 2. Others were born under the star - If a child who grows up socially with the opposite s3x, the probability that this will continue in the nearest future is very high. For example, suppose a man who usually engaged in many forms of relationship with the opposite s3x decides to get married and bear children, what do you think will be the outcome of his marital status? The probability that he will at least return to his old life style is very high thereby cheating on the other partner.

 It’s no wonder why all the programs for family planning we have around emphasize on courtship before marriage. At least, this gives you the time to spot out certain negative and positive aspects of your spouse before marriage.

 3. Wrong company - Another reason why spouses cheat on each other is when he/she interacts with the wrong people. This is why it’s very normal for a spouse to be faithful and later develops certain strange criteria in their marriage. George was a faithful guy and he makes sure that he does everything humanly possible to secure his relationship with his girlfriend, Marylyn. They almost shared the good and bad moments together until George met Justlain who could not take from him and for Gorge to keep up with the friendship, he had to answer to Justlain’s ways. Not that long, George was as well a drunkard, chaser, and gambler just like his friend. Most of their parties were such that Marylyn could not attend and for George not to go contrary, he had to start hiring street girl. Now, the obvious question is that, what if George had not known Justlain or anyone such as Justlain, would he had cheated? Research also proofs that among the reasons as to why spouses cheat, wrong company highly contribute.

 4. Sudden change of attitudes - Another reason why spouses cheat on each other may be as a result of sudden change of characters. For example, a guy might find a certain girl attractive probably because she matches his love map and later on in the matrimonial home, he sees but the reverse of whom he thought was a soul mate and at this point, it’s totally certain he is disappointed, right? This is the point he starts cheating in order to get a replacement or someone who at least can provide what his spouse could not or what he fails to find in his partner.

 5. Change of circumstances - In this situation, a spouse cheats when he/she fails to meet up with the high expectation when the courtship was favorable and in most of this cases, it happens most with females.

 At first, John usually supplied everything to Sophia  and even when they got married, the going was still smooth until when life turns the other way round for John as it was now difficult to make it up to Sophia.

 With the sort of treatment she got from John, it was now really hard to bear the situation and so, she starts engaging in secret relationships behind John’s knowledge.

 As you can see, as a result of change of circumstances, some spouses might cheat on their partners in order to satisfy their needs but remember that a good spouse will always be there for you in times of pains.

 Finally, as to why spouses cheat on each other, as I mentioned above, there are many reasons why after expressing heart fell love to a partner, he/she tends to dupe you without any meaningful background.

 But I usually tell my students that, everything happens with a purpose. Without purpose nothing exists.

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